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2019 Jun 10 01:47:04
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2019 Jun 10 01:28:53
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2019 Jun 10 01:26:44
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2019 Jun 06 14:52:24
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2019 Jun 06 13:46:02
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2019 Jun 05 11:53:33
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2019 Jun 05 05:19:35
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2019 Jun 04 10:25:51
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2019 Jun 04 05:13:11
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2019 Jun 02 12:03:42
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2019 Jun 02 00:29:09
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2019 May 31 14:40:02
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2019 May 12 15:44:32
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2019 May 12 15:04:01
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2019 May 12 14:54:37
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2019 May 12 14:51:59
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2019 May 12 14:40:43
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2019 May 11 05:35:39
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2019 May 03 01:16:05
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"Gratitude" by Bhante Mettiko
« on: January 12, 2019, 04:31:20 PM »
In trust that welcome:

My person is very happy when there are western/modern people, even monks, as total unbeloved, are teaching about the very foundation for any grow in Dhamma and so likes to share it, a talk given by Bhante Mettiko dwelling with the Sangha of Wat Muttodaya .

https://muttodaya.org/de/muttotalk/2017/17-11-12_gratitude_mettiko.mp3

Mudita by having gained also proper place for storing and share Dhamma not using probaly ungiven third rescources.

Since mostly no so beloved "Zuvorkommenheit" is a habit, my person would like to address Bhante in two regard:

1. A  Bhikkhu does not support such as gratitude in himself when receiving Dana but knows either that it increases his debts or is best placed. The Buddha told his monks not to receive gifts gratefull but "simply" würdevoll so that a donor would not be hurt and in knowing that it's paccaya for the path. It's at certain level of liberation a matter of goodness to let one be given to, receive gifts.
A Bhikkhu might dwell in mudita when seeing a donors benefical act, yes, but if having notions of joy in receiving, even feeling grateful, bond, by being given, not only it may touch Vinaya issues (preserving Arahats outwardly attitudes for monks) but has to correct certain things in his view for success in Dhamma, liberation.
Modern people have much problems with this, would even wonder why people are grateful be given having the possibility to give.

Typical, a monk even showing signs of gratitude and joy by receiving gifts is one (aside of Vinaya, outwardly) who delights in sensuality and expresses kāma-kataññū for kāma-guṇa, a so called debt-increaser, "ox" or social worker and reduce, shrinks, possible merits of donors, not to say being not a very fruitful field. So if having real compassion with the donor, even if still addicted, the right way is to give not the impression of gratitude outwardly but by showing Würde and simply make the best out of the gift in proper frames by respecting and appreciate someones auspicious deeds for the good of many.

There is a significant different between grateful and appreciating. The first is a confirming of ones having fallend into debts while the second confirms praiseworthy actions. In that way one should also think toward ones own goodness and past merits, not understanding ones done merits as something that has caused ones increasing of debts to be still bond to the world.

And as Bhante has introduced, the Pali in more careful in deviding "recognizing a sacrifice" and "feeling the need to repay such" althought, and that is why kataññū is not used as approach to giving, aside of Dhamma, proper for monks to express and think, is never used here but "just" "praise and appreciation" for others skilfull deeds, mudita and "Würde".

It's not really and pathleading conductive compassionate to introduce into basics on Dhamma drawing a total wrong picture on Bhikkhus (beggars) of the Noble and "independent" sort but merely for gaining favor under people of grave wrong view's purpose.

Even showing signs of respect toward a lay giver, aside when speaking, giving Dhamma (here even a must) would be not only mindly wrong but fails Vinaya. Such is different if receiving from a fellow, as such would have no need in giving, sharing paccaya (requisites), where a "thanks" might be even very proper but even there: don't reduce to possible amout of someones merits for the sake of mostly well considered socialization for bellys and other low sake.

My person, seeing much need to explain that so that it is understood, would hardly encourage to investigate this matter since it can easy lead to improper dependency by painting a wrong picture, putting a Bhikkhu on the level of a normal beggar.

2. Bhantes ways of talk are for the most to praise aside of the "selflifting" laughing in between. It may be good if Bhante tries to avoid it. This laughters joy are based on the suffering/belitteling of others, greedy success flowing out as pride. Good to investigate in the frames of references.

Gratitude for sharing the focus for a word for Zuvorkommenheit, pubbakārī.

Mudita and Sadhu

(my person had not listen the whole talk in detail)
« Last Edit: January 12, 2019, 05:44:47 PM by Johann »
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