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Posted by: Dhammañāṇa
« on: July 26, 2019, 09:18:48 PM »

In the Eyes of the Wise: The Buddha’s Teachings on Honor & Shame , generously given by Bhante Thanissaro, is btw. a nice short support on the "self-therapy-pattern", introduced by the Buddha.

Several years back, I led a retreat in Santa Fe on the topic of karma. One of the readings was a passage in which the Buddha teaches his seven-year-old son, Rahula, how to examine his actions, as he would his face in a mirror, to make sure that he harmed no one—neither himself nor anyone else. One of the retreatants was a therapist who, the day after the retreat, was scheduled to hold the final meeting of a therapy group she had organized for some of her clients. She decided to Xerox the Buddha’s teachings to Rahula (MN 61) and share them with the group, to get their opinion on the Buddha’s parenting skills. Their unanimous verdict: “If our parents had taught us like that, we wouldn’t be needing therapy groups like this.”

What was striking about their verdict was that they arrived at it even though the Buddha’s teaching emphasized the need for Rahula to develop a sense of shame around his actions: If he didn’t feel shame at telling a deliberate lie, he was as empty of goodness as an overturned dipper was empty of water. If he realized that he had engaged in thinking that had harmed himself—or could lead to harm to others—he was to feel ashamed of those thoughts and to resolve not to repeat them....


There is also a very resent essay by Bhante. My person haven't read it yet in detail:

The Buddha Teaches His Son: An Essay on Majjhima Nikāya 61.  This essay draws out some of the implications of the Buddha’s seemingly simple instructions to his young son.
Posted by: Dhammañāṇa
« on: July 26, 2019, 09:09:09 PM »

[Q&A] Does past play any role in analysis of conditions leading to suffering?, was asked by Nyom Brian  .

Yes, and importand. Not because of change the past, but to adjust ones ways of behaviour and to walk on better. The past is one of the three times used to find the middle-way, that which causes neither oneself not others harm.

The surely most effective teachings in how to gain liberation, in discriminating before, while, and after actions is given by the Sublime Buddha in his talk to his son, Ven. Rahula, still a child, a "new-comer", and in regard of past, this teaching looks like this:

Namo tassa bhagavato arahato sammā-sambuddhassa

..."Having done a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I have done — did it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Was it an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it led to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it was an unskillful bodily action with painful consequences, painful results, then you should confess it, reveal it, lay it open to the Teacher or to a knowledgeable companion in the holy life. Having confessed it... you should exercise restraint in the future. But if on reflection you know that it did not lead to affliction... it was a skillful bodily action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then you should stay mentally refreshed & joyful, training day & night in skillful mental qualities....

... "Having done a verbal action, you should reflect on it: 'This verbal action I have done — did it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Was it an unskillful verbal action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it led to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it was an unskillful verbal action with painful consequences, painful results, then you should confess it, reveal it, lay it open to the Teacher or to a knowledgeable companion in the holy life. Having confessed it... you should exercise restraint in the future. But if on reflection you know that it did not lead to affliction... it was a skillful verbal action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then you should stay mentally refreshed & joyful, training day & night in skillful mental qualities....

..."Having done a mental action, you should reflect on it: 'This mental action I have done — did it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Was it an unskillful mental action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it led to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it was an unskillful mental action with painful consequences, painful results, then you should feel distressed, ashamed, & disgusted with it. Feeling distressed, ashamed, & disgusted with it, you should exercise restraint in the future. But if on reflection you know that it did not lead to affliction... it was a skillful mental action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then you should stay mentally refreshed & joyful, training day & night in skillful mental qualities.

"Rahula, all those brahmans & contemplatives in the course of the past who purified their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions, did it through repeated reflection on their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions in just this way.

"All those brahmans & contemplatives in the course of the future who will purify their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions, will do it through repeated reflection on their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions in just this way.

"All those brahmans & contemplatives at present who purify their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions, do it through repeated reflection on their bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions in just this way.

"Thus, Rahula, you should train yourself: 'I will purify my bodily actions through repeated reflection. I will purify my verbal actions through repeated reflection. I will purify my mental actions through repeated reflection.' That's how you should train yourself."

Note-worthy in addition is, that the mental wrong action do not require confessing.

Reflecting on the past requires also an attentive record, that means also reflection before and while doing and being aware of ones actions.

What is not at all suggested is to spectulate on even exact pattern of causes when encounting effects. As told by the Buddha, such investigation may lead to "crazyness".

So if one is certain new in staying mindful (remembering) of one actions and their intentions, it does not make sense to only beginn if all the past is seen clear of where one resulted to "be" where one is. Like when a debter gets aware of his situation whould not processes if lamentating about past instead of resolving to get to work with aim and concept, or a rich would stop his efforts to further progress if nurishing only on the past, so too, the firm reflection, as good as possible and seen on the past is most importand and the source of refined reflection before on does a further action.

Not sure in how far there is much interest or not, Atma stops here.