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Posted by: Johann
« on: March 26, 2019, 04:50:13 PM »

Face and head disappeared, only hidden online, mystic links... Atma would not follow such.
Everything all right, Nyom Kong Sokdina ?
Posted by: Kong Sokdina
« on: March 26, 2019, 11:44:28 AM »

Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: March 26, 2019, 11:06:32 AM »

 កូណា :D _/\_
Posted by: Johann
« on: March 26, 2019, 10:57:25 AM »

Mudita


Quote from: from An 7.63, quoted from Mangala Sutta Uannana - Ven. K. Gunaratana Thera(draft)
Sujata, the sister of Visakha Maha Upasika, married the son of Anata Pindika. She was not only wealthy but was also charming. In the home of Anata Pindika she became disagreeable to almost every member of the family and to the servants as well. She was very quarrelsome and had her own say mostly because of her conceit.

One day Anata Pindika offered food to the Lord Buddha and his Bhikkhus and during the meal, she made a commotion in the household. The Lord Buddha,knowing the nature of the woman enquired about her dispute, which disrupted the peace of the home.

The Lord Buddha then asked her,

“There are seven classes of wives; have you any knowledge to which class you belong?”

She replied that she did not know.

The Lord Buddha said, “A wife not in any way agreeable but finding every chance to quarrel with her husband or members of his family, is a quarrelsome wife.

A wife whose outlook in life is bent on squandering away the fortune of her husband in gambling or drinking, is a thievish wife,

a wife who takes good advantage of the kindness of her husband, adopts a superior outlook in a manner so as to gain control over him in any matter concerning his family or his outside activities, is a domineering wife;

but when a wife looks after her husband’s interest with tender care and devotion like a mother over her child, this kind of wife is a motherly one;

again a wife who by nature is obedient and shy like a sister to a brothers belongs to a sisterly type;

and a wife who shares in like manner the happiness of misfortune of her husband is at once a friendly one;

finally a wife who lives in tolerance of the whims and dislikes of her husband and serves him faithfully throughout, is a servantly type.

(The asked of the Buddha which kind of wife she is, she replayed that from this day on she will be the servantly type.)

In the light of the truth Sujata gained the realization of the fruits of the First Path (Sotapatti).

Continuing the sermon, the Lord Buddha remarked that among the first three classes of wives, their existence after death would be in a hellish state, suffering untold pain in the unconsuming fire or tortment. The remaining four classes of wives would enjoy even in their present lives, the store of happiness and after death, their existence would be in a continued state of bliss in the realm of heaven.

Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: March 26, 2019, 10:46:23 AM »

 _/\_ _/\_ _/\_
កូ​ណាបាន​រក​ឃើញថា​ គួរតែជា អ្នកបំរើ.​ ទើបសាកសម
ប៉ុន្តែជាអ្នកបំរើដែលអាចជួយចៅហ្វាយបានច្រើន
និង ដែលមានសេរីភាពជាងពីសម័យបុរាណ.​ :D  _/\_
Posted by: Johann
« on: March 26, 2019, 07:26:42 AM »

The "problem" with/for the 1. of good "partner", the motherly, is that her focus is much on controlling. As one desires to control other, or outcomes, that mighr lead then to happiness for others, so things are not able to be controlled, hard to have oneself under control, the motherly is the lowers of the good wifes/partner, causing herself and others often suffering. To much love, identification and bound. Good, kusala, but much dukkha as very close and ostensible.

How about the second?
Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: March 26, 2019, 07:11:17 AM »

សាធុ​ _/\_ _/\_ _/\_

មកពីធម្មជាតិ​កូណា​ មិនចូលចិត្តដឹកនាំគេ មិនចូលចិត្តគេដឹកមុខ
តែចូលចិត្តជួយគេ ទោះគេសុំក្តីមិនសុំក្តី ទើបតែងទទួលការលំបាក
នៅពេលជួយគេមិនបានសំរេច រឺមិនមានលទ្ធភាព..
កូណា មិនដឹង​ថាត្រូវរើសនៅក្នុងជំពូក1ណា.​ ^-^ _/\_
Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: March 26, 2019, 07:04:34 AM »

 :) _/\_ _/\_ _/\_
Posted by: Johann
« on: March 25, 2019, 09:55:47 PM »

This teaching from the seven kinds of wifes, at the beginning, is actually a matter in every relation, male, student... teacher. The last one, even fools would say "how low..." is actually not only the King in an relation, soon will gain any freedom, but also one who can help ones defiled teacher, chef, partner... to one time possible see his dark places.

- Namo tassa bhagavato arahato sammā-sambuddhassa -

...but when a wife (person) looks after her husband’s (elders, his instructor, teacher, Uppajja...) interest with tender care and devotion like a mother over her child, this kind of wife is a motherly (fatherly) one;

again a wife who by nature is obedient and shy like a sister to a brothers belongs to a sisterly type;

and a wife who shares in like manner the happiness of misfortune of her husband is at once a friendly one;

finally a wife who lives in tolerance of the whims and dislikes of her husband and serves him faithfully throughout, is a servantly type.

Which kind "partner" of and "elder", one who was first, one one depends on... does one like to be?

There are certain thing my person does not agree here, especially the title, but in it's heart, aside of the notion given that one should be inhonest, or even steal, Ven. Thanissaros teaching here transports a good message, actually the Khmer way, khema way, to "solve" problems without "patiseit", to carefully help "stubborn" fallen leaders, fathers, mothers, elder... Think Like a Thief . Talents "modern" people mostly never learned and to often fall for thought of being independent and having rights. Not every leader one depends on is already a Noble One or even an Arahat but possible on the way or could be redirected indirect.
Posted by: Johann
« on: November 12, 2018, 08:04:32 PM »

Since not so easy to do, Atma told Nyom Chanroth already to learn and record: Audio-record would be good.

A male voice for Conduct of man and female for woman would be good.
Posted by: Johann
« on: November 12, 2018, 07:55:07 PM »

Atmapeap just received it via email, Sadhu, and uploaded it to the media-folder on ati.eu. Download: http://accesstoinsight.eu/_media/km/vappadhamma/cpap_pros_cpap_srei.docx

Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: November 12, 2018, 07:45:48 PM »

Prah Ang  _/\_
I kuna prepared to send ChabSrey ChbabBros Docx. file here.

* Johann : Attachment removed and uploaded on ati.eu.
Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: November 11, 2018, 01:10:43 PM »

Kuna Prah Ang  _/\_
Posted by: Johann
« on: November 11, 2018, 09:52:51 AM »

Posted by: Cheav Villa
« on: November 10, 2018, 03:19:28 PM »

Kuna Prah Ang  _/\_